Publisher Description

Expert organizer and New York Times bestselling author Julie Morgenstern teaches you how to get rid of the physical, mental, and time clutter that's keeping you from the life you want.Julie Morgenstern has made a career out of helping her clients get organized. But in the process, she discovered something surprising: for many of her clients, organizing isn't enough. For those who are eager to make a change in their lives--a new job, a new relationship, a new stage in life--they need to get rid of the old before they can organize the new. They need to SHED their stuff before they can change their lives! So Julie created the SHED process--a four-step plan to get rid of the physical, mental, and schedule clutter that holds back so many of us. But SHEDing isn't just about throwing things away! Julie teaches that its just as important to focus on what comes before and after you heave the clutter, so that the changes you make really stick in the long term. Learn about: - Separating the treasures (figuring out what really matters) - Heaving the rest (undertaking the tough work of eliminating excess) - Embracing your true identity (figuring out who you really want to be) - Driving yourself forward (achieving real change now that the past isn't holding you back any longer) Whether you're facing a move, a promotion, an empty nest, a marriage, divorce, or retirement, SHED Your Stuff, Change Your Life provides a practical, transformative plan for positively managing change in every aspect of your life.

Author Biography

Julie Morgenstern helps people and companies--like American Express, IKEA, The Miami Heat, Sony Music, Rubbermaid, and Time Warner--do more in less time. Morgenstern's first book, Organizing From the Inside Out, was made into a PBS special. She is also the author of Time Management from the Inside Out, Organizing from the Inside Out for Teens (co-written with her daughter Jessi), and Never Check E-Mail in the Morning.

Review

"Absolutely brilliant!" -- Stephen R. Covey, author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Review Quote

"This book will help you to recognize what you really value in life so you can let go of everything that's keeping you from reaching your true potential." -- Larry King

Excerpt from Book

Chapter 1 What Is SHED? Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you''ve imagined. --Henry David Thoreau As an organizing and time management guru, my work over the past twenty years has been dedicated to delivering practical and insightful solutions that transform the way people and companies function. My "inside-out" philosophy lies at the heart of my mission--building systems around the unique personality, style, and goals of each individual and company so that they can make their greatest contributions to the world. Organizing is the process of arranging your home, office, and schedule so that it reflects and encourages who you are, what you want, and where you are going. Simply put, organizing is about designing systems that improve your efficiency and enable you to achieve your goals. But what happens when organizing isn''t enough? Dear Julie, I am stuck, paralyzed, before my own future. I''ve been opening doors and closing them, unable to confront the task that awaits me--getting my so-called empty nest ready to sell. Brooke, 53, public relations consultant I''m unhappy in my job, but am stumped whether to stay or go. I''ve been spinning my wheels for years and I have no idea where to go from here. Greg, 36, financial analyst On the outside, my life looks good--nice house, great family, good job. I look so accomplished. But it''s an empty shell. I''ve felt my whole life that there is something unexpressed in me. Olivia, 47, real estate agent I read your organizing books, and they make utter sense, but change is hard. I can''t seem to part with my old ways. Adam, 62, architect Organizing works when you know where you are going but don''t know how to get there. But when you are feeling stuck in your life, when you are in transition and unsure of where you''re going next . . . organizing is not enough . Here''s a little more from Brooke''s letter to me: Before spring vacation I had made a list of things to do based on putting the house on the market this spring. It included shopping for improvements--French doors to separate the front hall from my computer room--and lots of sorting tasks to pare down the nineteen years'' worth of stuff that is stored all over this big house. But at the end of spring break the only task I had accomplished was loading and using Turbo Tax! I still can''t believe that with nothing to do I was unable to face that list. Spring vacation is my get-it-done time. I clean, I sort, I organize. What is wrong with me?! Brooke When I read Brooke''s note it seemed clear to me that the issue she was struggling with was not how to get organized . She sounded like a "get-it-done" person who was good at making lists and tackling her to-dos ("I clean, I sort, I organize"). Our follow-up conversation confirmed my hunches: A public relations professional and a divorced single mom, Brooke, 53, woke up one morning to find herself an empty nester. "With no actual kids under my roof, everyone--including me--thinks I ought to consider moving on," she said. "Plus, it is ridiculous. I have over 2,600 square feet of house, and I spend most of it camped out on my bed, surrounded by novels, magazines, and crossword puzzles, happily munching on my dinner like a kid in a tent." Brooke was wrestling with a major change. Brooke''s house was not messy or disorganized--it was a lovingly designed and arranged work of art, a symbol of love and family. She felt attached to it, although she knew that attachment was weighing her down. She had always known her children would grow up, go to college, find jobs, and live on their own, but the moment had arrived all too soon, and she felt unprepared. She was not quite sure where she would go from here. She didn''t need a better system; she needed something more. In Brooke''s state of paralysis, simply getting organized wasn''t the solution. In my experience, people who are ready to get organized always have a clear vision of their destination--they have their eyes on a bigger goal. They want to save their job or start a business, strengthen their marriage or take better care of their children. In other words, no matter how high the piles, or packed the schedule, breakthrough comes when someone sees something that they desperately want on the other side of the clutter. By the time a client calls for my services, he or she already knows where they are going, is clear on their goals, and just needs help laying out a path to get there. But when you don''t know exactly where you are going or what you want (even though where you are isn''t working), organizing isn''t enough. When you need or want to change something about your life, when you are going through a transition and are struggling to relinquish something that represents the past, you don''t need to get organized--you need to SHED . What Is SHED? SHED is a transformative process for letting go of things that represent the past so you can grow and move forward. The four steps of SHED ( S eparate the Treasures, H eave the Trash, E mbrace Your Identity, D rive Yourself Forward) provide a framework for proactively managing change, transition, and the feeling of being stuck and unsure. By releasing the defunct, extraneous, and burdensome objects and obligations that are weighing you down, you create the space to discover what''s next and gather the energy and courage to move forward. By understanding and releasing your emotional attachments to tangible areas (like your space and time), SHED enables you to release intangible burdens including unhealthy beliefs and limiting thoughts. SHED is not only about throwing things away (though that is a piece). SHED ing converts the process of letting go into an opportunity for self-discovery and healthy growth. It is a catalyst and companion on the journey to living a richer, more connected life. The ultimate payoff ? Clarity, lightness of being, authenticity, and living as your most genuine, fully engaged self. Is SHED for You? SHED can be used by anyone who is feeling stuck in their lives. This book helps people gracefully and optimistically manage all kinds of change, including those prompted by: Natural life transitions: moving, retiring, graduating, marriage, promotion, new baby, empty nest, new business Sudden shift in life circumstances: job loss, company merger/management change, health crisis, divorce, threat of eviction, unexpected gain (financial windfall, new relationship) Internal drive for self-fulfillment and improvement: a desire for improved relationships with others, oneself, and the world This book treats all change as an opportunity to grow. It provides a framework to positively manage change and converts the transition process-- usually considered the most intolerable part of change--into a vital, vibrant adventure. SHED can be used to help you gain clarity no matter what stage of a transition you are in, although there are typically three points along the change continuum that trigger the process. You could be feeling ready to SHED if: You''re on the brink of change--having thought about it for years--and now you''re ready to take action You''ve already made a change but are still feeling stuck in the past You''re being forced to make a change, whether you like it or not, and are feeling resistant Let me give you a few examples. I''ve been brewing about making a change for years Caroline, 41, had worked in investment banking for years and did not want for money, comfort, or prestige. Yet, despite her outward success, something wasn''t quite right; she was unhappy. On the fast track to becoming a senior managing partner, Caroline was extremely organized, productive, and efficient in her behind-the-scenes job crunching numbers, prepping deals, and crafting mergers. But something about the work had always felt hollow and mechanical; there was a social part of her personality that craved deeper, more sustainable relationships with clients and peers. Caroline''s unhappiness intensified over eighteen months and she finally decided to make a change. She stepped off the fast track and accepted a new position in training and development, a more visible role within the company. Leaving the comfort and safety of her behind-the-scenes role was scary, but she felt incomplete and knew she couldn''t stay where she was a moment longer. I''ve already made a change but am still feeling stuck in the past Jay, 32, grew up in the foster care system, and had battled physical chaos in his life for as long as he could remember. Having switched homes many times throughout his childhood, he never successfully set up a space for himself. He''d gone on to college (where he lived in the dorms) and then postcollege to a house share with some friends. No place ever really felt like home. In every abode, his room was cluttered and stifling. He moved into his first real, grown-up apartment four years ago--a contemporary one-bedroom flat with a brand-new kitchen, beautiful wood floors, and renovated bath. Yet he''d never fully unpacked, and when I first met him, he was still living out of boxes and bags. "The one thing every single living thing on this earth has is a home,

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