Read this if you'd like. It's personal and why I'm selling right now

Hi. My name is Chris. I will be selling a lot of really nice stuff over the next.. However long it takes, I guess. Everything from cosmetics, jewelry, accessories, clothing and who knows what else. I have been ill for the last eight years, with several pain and spine disorders, thyroid and nerve disorders. And more. Nobody wants to hear a sob story, from my experience, but this is how it is. A year and a half ago my children's father stole my kids and took them into another county over a half hour away. He is a selfish ass and he was tired of paying child support. When we divorced six years earlier, because he was on disability and VA benefits and I had been a stay at home mom (of four children), he threatened to take full custody because I had no income and he did, if I didn't give him jurisdictional rights. I was afraid, he had a lawyer, I had nothing and no family so six years later and with a new evil jealous wife in tow, he decided while I was completely helpless, to sue me for custody. After, as I said, he took my kids right out from under my nose. How does that happen? Over Christmas break. He made sure he had them the second half of the break and un enrolled them from their schools here and re enrolled them in schools there. And then refused to give them back. Police will not step in for any domestic Issues like that here. My current husband of seven years was furious because the child support stopped, since he insisted that it was part of our income though I repeatedly told him it wasn't, I had just lost my children, the youngest Having been with him since he was two, and all he cared about was the money. I was sick, in pain and heart broken and out of nowhere he told me he wasn't happy anymore and wanted a different life. His exact words were "you have to go". His parents had put a $60k down payment on our $375k house five years earlier which was for all of us, and he told me I had to get out of HIS house. I was disabled but unable to get disability because I hadn't worked long enough.. Because raising four children and taking care of absolutely everything isn't a job.. As many of you are aware. Right. I couldn't work, had no income, could barely walk most days and had no family or nearby friends and he told me I had to get out. Somehow between fighting, serious depression and avoidance I managed to stay another year. It flew by. A few months earlier I had met someone on a dating site, I wasn't thrilled about the idea but I was really lonely. We hit it off right away, he wasn't exactly my type, but my type seemed to just be bad for me. He was amazing, had a good stable job, a thirteen year old daughter, he was open to trying new things.. Lol, like coffee and movies from this decade. He treated me great, I let him meet my kids, it was a dream come true. He wanted us to get a house together, all of my fears about being homeless and causing my children so much pain were gone and for the first time in forever I was actually happy. Even my symptoms started being less severe. We picked out a place, he sent everything in, we signed the lease and then I saw his income sheets and noticed several numbers has been changed by hand. I asked him about it over and over until he finally admitted me he had lied to me. He hadn't been working the whole time, had retired from his good paying job months prior and all of the money he'd been flagrantly spending was from early withdrawal out of his retirement and profit sharing account. Every day he was apparently at work, he was just sitting around at his apartment on his ass watching tv. Even the very first message I got from him ever was a lie. Lies lies lies. My house was packed my name was on a lease and then I find out I've been screwed all over again. I couldn't tell my kids, I had no where else to go, so I forgave him and we moved on. He swore he'd been trying to get a job and he would. He still had some money left to hold us over. He got a job, worked for a month and then when he didn't get paid he supposedly asked about it and was told he was in training and wouldn't get paid until he was done. He took a job working 40 hours a week, driving all over the city and somehow didn't know he wasn't getting paid. I wanted to kill him. But I didn't because I have children. By then, the money was gone, he took a loan against his car title, without telling me, to cover the rent and then he turned around two weeks later and SOLD his car. He lost a thousand bucks for the damn loan that he lied about as well. He just made all kinds of decisions without me. So my vehicle was now his work vehicle. I was left all day, with my nineteen year old son and no car. Then, as if this could get any worse, a friend of mine I had met on the same dating site.. Just a friend.. Seriously. He was a separated atheist with no sex drive. But we enjoyed a lot of the same things.. Which for me is rare. He texted and told me his girlfriend had broken up with him the night before and he thought it was really serious.. Was really upset. I asked if he wanted to come by my new house and talk about it while he moved heavy stuff for me.. So he came by, I didn't think anything about it being wrong, but my wonderful bf came home early, which had become a thing for him most days, saw us sitting in the living room, on different sofas, fully dressed and just talking and turned straight back around and stormed out of the house. My friend was super uncomfortable so he took off and I got a text telling me to "get that **cking guy out of MY house before I come in there and choke his ass". Needless to say I was beside myself. I didn't want anything to do with him at that point. He came screaming into the house while I was in the bathroom, avoiding him and was outside the door screaming and calling me a whore! I couldn't believe it. I've never been called anything like that in my life. He hit the door so hard the lock gave and the door swung open and hit me, I slammed it back and he hit it again and cracked part of it. I came out then and he just wouldn't stop. My son had to come downstairs and straighten his ass out. He's young but very commanding. He finally got him to calm down, after having to hear him call me a whore in front of him. That was so wrong. My son knew the friend that was over and knew better. He told him as much. So, once again I forgave him. After that he was terrible to me even though he said he was over it. He started yelling at me to sell my stuff because we needed money, told me to get off MY ass and get a job, knowing I was sick. He didn't care if I was in pain, wouldn't lift a finger to help with anything in the house, ever, and had earned a total of one paycheck since we had met. For like $500. A couple of weeks went by and he finally got a job, and then two. I couldn't believe it. All of our bills were behind including our rent and he made me deal with it all myself. I had to explain to our rental agent why we couldn't even pay the second months rent. It was embarrassing and I hated it. To be 48 and have to explain such a thing is just awful. A few weeks ago he told me his father was going to let him borrow his truck because he'd had heart surgery and couldn't drive anytime soon. He told me I'd have my van back like it was a favor. He asked me to drive him and on the way to his sister's house he told me he was leaving. Just like that. If you've been in any situation even close to this horrible then you know exactly what I was feeling. If not, I'm very glad for you. I couldn't breath, started hyperventilating.. Sobbing.. It was ugly. He didn't care. He told me he couldn't forgive me for not telling him I was having a guy in our house. I didn't do anything wrong, but he couldn't trust ME any more. Yes, he said that. He was a compulsive liar and He couldn't trust me. He said he'd be fair about the bills and he got out and left me to drive home. Because of him and his supposed $85,000 a year income and his amazing ability to get me to believe his lies, I am now facing eviction, my electric is going to get turned off tomorrow, water on Friday and my license is about to get suspended because I got the first ticket I've gotten in ten years, third in my driving life, and couldn't afford to pay it. My younger children have no idea what's going on or that we're even broken up. They just lost their step father a year ago because he didn't want us anymore, and now the same thing has happened again. I Just can't let them suffer any more emotional trauma. So, for the first time since I was 22, I'm going to attempt to live on my own. I managed to finally finish getting my son into college yesterday, pretty much by force, so he will be helping with the bills soon. This is why I'm letting everything go. I've clung to "things" for years out of depression and loneliness but when it comes down to a choice between "things" and life, the things have to go. I have always been a makeup junkie, I love jewelry, anything beautiful. The skincare that has duplicates were bought as gifts for an occasion that never happened. The jewelry I can't see myself ever being in a position to wear again. I've set aside a few smaller simpler things to keep. I had a good life financially for awhile, but it was the only good thing I had besides my children. 

There's a good chance most people wouldn't have read a third of that. If you did, I'm very grateful just for your time. For whatever you purchase, please know that your money is going towards saving a home and a family. I won't likely be able to list fast enough to help myself by tomorrow, but I'm seriously going to try. My electric bill is over $500 because the electric was in my name at my last house. Because my life is so awesome, they transferred the last month there onto my new bill here and it's past due. I haven't spoken to my ex since the day I left. I'll be listing everything at average prices, don't think I'm horrible, but if you want to add a few extra bucks I would be incredibly grateful. If you've been where I am, you know that a few bucks can be unbelievably helpful. I have a dog, a cat and a canary. Yes,, i know how that sounds, and I love them. This isn't my fault, it isn't my children's fault and it isn't my pets fault. So thank you in advance for helping in any way, or for just buying something you want. I have some of everything. Tons of bath and body works products I've never even gotten to. Everything is in excellent condition, high quality and from a very clean and careful owner. I even have baby clothes and a lot of gorgeous toddler dresses. If you're looking for something, just ask me. If you buy something for a good price and need something else, I'll help you in any way I can. For free. Everything will be BIN because I need it now. I'll pay for shipping. I can't thank you enough for your help or just for buying, but I will try.

Oh, if you're wondering why I waited until today, now at the burning hour, it's because I just found out last night that he wasn't going to be fair after all. I told him a friend, who's actually the closest thing I have to family, fixed my car, yes, my car was almost dead as well as everything else. Every one of my spark plugs was bad. One was broken, two were practically falling out and all of the pins were gone. That's what happens when your spouse insists on taking care of his car, but never yours. He got furious yet again and told me he could never trust anyone like me again. My friend that came to my house straight from working on jet engines for 10 hours at NAS Jax, figured out what was wrong, insisted on taking me to get new plugs and new wires and then drove me even further away to pick up my prescriptions because he seriously cares about my well-being, and then brought me back home and spent at least an hour in the 90+° sun fixing my car (he paid for it all too because he knew I couldn't) was absolutely floored. He works three jobs to cover his bills and child support to make sure his kids are taken care of. He did me a huge favor and I got cut off for it. What kind of person does that kind of thing?

Anyways, thanks again, God bless you 70 and if you have any questions at all about anything, please feel free to email me