When we think of a nice guy, we all think of a lovable, adorable loser with good intentions. We think a nice guy as someone who's at peace with the world and oneself and someone who's just waiting to get lucky.

But Dr. Robot Glover talks about, how a nice guy is not nice at all and has just the reputation for being a very nice person.

He says the reality is that a nice guy often is a very passive-aggressive individual who's trying to get the things. He wants through manipulation by being nice.

Brava talks about how these people suffer from something that he calls nice guy syndrome and how you can get rid of it.

Glover says nice guys only appear to be nice on the outside because they are giving us. They like to fix things and they can take us, but in reality this is only because they secretly want something back in return.

They appear as, if they don't need much and they rarely ask for favors because they prefer manipulation instead of asking to get what they want.

Glover says, nice guys avoid conflict only to become passive-aggressive. So that they can keep their reputation for being nice and that they seem to make only few mistakes.

They are masters at hiding their mistakes and flaws which often makes their problems. Even Glover also says that nice guys seem lovable and at ease with the world.

But in fact they are full of rage because they usually don't get much back in return for what they give and lastly they appear as easygoing and comfortable with most decisions.

But on the inside they are massively jealous and they don't like many decisions as us make but they lack the ability of saying no and setting some healthy boundaries.

Glover also says that most of this happens unconsciously. So nice guys aren't even aware of it.

Dr. Glover says it's a nice guy syndrome something that rarely happens to kids who have had a father or strong masculine role model around when growing up. 

But many grown-ups haven't had a strong role model around because of different reasons like the world war two.

In today's society, it often is because of a divorce rate of 50% for many countries and usually after divorce the children stay with their single moms.

Glover talks about, are the education system who is dominated by females mainly guilt feminism.

Glover recommends asking questions like if I didn't care what people thought about me how I would live my life and in the context of a relationship.

He recommends asking yourself, if I weren't concerned with getting the approval of women.

Dr. Glover recommends getting comfortable about being pleasured learning to receive without thinking. If you have some flaws don't hide them.

And if she doesn't want you because of your body flaws it's probably not worth keeping her around.

Glover is also talking about that I want to give you guys' get rid of shame and fear about being sexual.

You are a guy and you have sexual desires and fantasies needs. You get horny every now and then and you want to have sex, that's totally normal.

You don't have to pretend that you don't have these desires or few chained about them.